Student speaker to class of 2010: Find your voice

Student speaker to class of 2010: Find your voice

NICOLE BEDNARSKI

News Editor

DEBORAH ERSKINE
Deborah Erskine is anything but weak. At 56, she is as active and fluid as a 20-something. You would never guess the life she has been through. But anyone who asks can easily find out. She’ll share her message when she addresses Washtenaw Community College graduates at the commencement ceremony May 22 at Eastern Michigan University’s Convocation Center. Instead of hiding her past, Erskine has devoted her life to helping people keep from making the same mistakes she did. She was trapped in an abusive marriage for more than six years, far longer than anyone ever should be, she knows now. “I went for a very long time apologizing for being a survivor of domestic violence, because back in that day you hid it,” she said. “You don’t talk about, just get over it.” Now that Erskine has finally found her own voice and moved on, she is determined to help others do so as well. “I’m driven to tell these women that this is not what you caused, this is what another person did to you,” she said. “Don’t hang your head and don’t let anyone tell you, you should be ashamed. It’s ridiculous.” So when Erskine began taking classes at WCC she knew she had to go into a field that allowed her to help others, to give back and assist them in finding their own voice. “That’s become a huge thing for me,” she said. “I want everyone to have a voice. I don’t think there’s too much more that could beat you down than (to) leave you feeling like nobody cares and nobody hears you.” The devoted mother, now married to the love of her life, continues to move forward, leaving her past far behind and helping others come out of bad situations with their head held high. A longtime volunteer at Safe House, Erskine will soon begin her internship there, and is excited beyond words. “The work that they do and the group that they have working there… everyone there, the services they offer, the dedication to helping people who don’t have the resources or don’t have a voice. I guess I would say my ultimate goal, my ultimate dream job coming out of this, would be to become an advocate,” Erskine said. “Because you have to make those in their ivory towers listen. You have to listen and pay attention. And not just decide arbitrarily what people need. You need to know what they need and pay attention.” And that’s what WCC gave to her. She graduates this semester with an associate’s degree in human services and plans to continue her education in social work at EMU. “I’m really at the point in my life where I’m thinking, ‘Oh my gosh, what are we leaving behind for them?’” Erskine said of her six grandchildren. “I guess I feel like it’s my time to try.”

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Finalists for ‘student speaker’ share their messages

Michele Thomas
MICHELE THOMAS
Anyone who has stepped into the admissions office at WCC during the last seven years and met admissions recruiter Michele Thomas, probably spent the rest of the day smiling. Known for calling people “honey” and “sweetie,” Thomas has the reputation for brightening the days of almost everyone she meets. Which is incredible, considering what she has recently endured. After undergoing intense chemotherapy for almost five months for ovarian cancer, her marriage of 25 years ended last September. The cherry on top was finding out she also had chronic lymphocytic leukemia, a type of blood and bone marrow cancer. But you’d never guess it. Thomas, 53, loves her life, and shares that joy with everyone she can. “Some friends of mine ask me, ‘How can you be so happy?’” she said, “And I always say, ‘Well what else can I do?’ There’s nothing else I can do. It’s not going to help me, or help anybody else being all mopey and sad about it… You know what? It’s a life lesson.” And that optimism shines through in every aspect of her character, from her life at work, while attending classes, with her family, to the time she has alone in the early morning. Because Thomas is, of course, a morning person, waking up happily around 4:30 a.m. every morning. A few hours later, Thomas is on campus, hugging her co-workers and making their mornings just a little more pleasant. It’s difficult to not be perky when she spends every day in the place that gave her such an incredible opportunity. Thomas began taking classes sporadically in the late ’90s, but took her time in order to avoid any student loans. “I fell in love with it here,” she said, remembering her first semester at WCC. “The students are amazing, and the teachers, the staff, everybody was so friendly and helpful. I just felt such ease coming here.” Thomas will graduate with an associate’s degree in liberal arts and plans to transfer to a four-year university soon, hopefully into an accelerated program.
Diane Champion
DIANNE CHAMPION
Twelve years ago Diane Champion lay in a hospital bed in Southern California, unable to walk or talk. She had suffered a severe brain hemorrhage and wasn’t expected to live much longer. Her husband had brought her to the hospital after she complained of a terrible headache for four days. The hospital performed an emergency CAT scan. “They said to get my parents there right away,” she recalls. “The next thing I know, I heard my dad’s voice, I remembered what the doctor was saying. By a miracle, my brain healed itself.” Seven years later Champion, her husband, and their son, Eric, moved to Ypsilanti Township. Eric is now 9-years-old, in the third grade and more than proud of his mother. “My grade card is right next to his on the fridge,” Champion said. “I’ve maintained a 4.0 GPA being a mother, a wife and a student.” Some would call that a miracle, all things considered. “I had to relearn how to walk and talk,” she said of her recovery process. “I had a lot of short term memory loss for a long time. I would park my car at the mall and couldn’t remember where it was… Now I’ve moved on, I’ve closed that chapter of my book and I’ve moved on, studying and memorizing things.” On graduation day, Eric will be there in the crowd with his dad and grandparents to cheer on his mother. He even had his dad order a special T-shirt that says, “My mom is graduating today with a 4.0 GPA… way to go, Mom!” And Champion doesn’t plan on stopping her education any time soon. She will begin an accelerated program at Davenport University in the Fall of 2011 in business management. “I am so up for the challenge.”
STEPHAN MONTGOMERY
STEPHAN MONTGOMERY
In 1996, Stephan Montgomery lost a son. He had an asthma attack at 17, and despite a promising future, the boy was taken from his friends and family. “This is in memory of him,” Montgomery said. “Because he couldn’t get his degree, I’ll get it for him.” In 2008, Montgomery found his niche. After spending 14 years as a police officer in Detroit, Montgomery left it all behind, moving to Ann Arbor to attend WCC. He enrolled in Maxine Gibson’s English 091 course, among other classes, and was surprised at how easily writing came to him. Gibson inspired Montgomery throughout his time at WCC, including her recommendation that he tutor in The Writing Center, an opportunity that ultimately led the new student to find his passion. “I guess I had a talent that she recognized, that I didn’t recognize, so I changed my major to elementary education,” he explains. “That experience, dealing with students one on one… and the expression when they would come back later and say because of my help they got a good grade on a paper. That gave me little goose bumps.” Montgomery went on to have an essay published in the very textbook he used in that first English course. He is now enrolled at Eastern Michigan University, and will begin taking courses in June, majoring in technology and design education with a minor in literature, reading and writing education. But he thanks WCC for giving him the first stepping stones in this new venture. “I guess if I had to give a message to anyone it would be whatever your dream is, go for it,” he said. “Don’t let others get in the way. Don’t let yourself get in the way. Don’t have self-doubt, because I’ve had self-doubt here a couple of times. “And surround yourself with people that share your dream. If you do that you’re going to get wherever you want to go.”
STEPHANIE LONCHAR
STEPHANIE LONCHAR
Stephanie Lonchar graduated from Stockbridge High School in 2005, and quickly ran for warmer weather. She moved to Key West, Fla., and attended a community college for a year before deciding to move back home. She enrolled at WCC in the Fall of 2007, and hasn’t regretted a day since. “From the professors and the different people on campus, everyone is so open and it’s been so much fun. It kind of feels like home,” she said of WCC. Lonchar completely submerged herself in activities at the college during her time taking classes. She was a part of the Anime Club and Gamer’s Club, but her true passion fell on broadcasting. She became the president of Orchard Radio in the Winter 2009 semester, and has been involved with the student radio station for almost three years. Lonchar also became involved with the Student Development and Activities office, assisting Rachel Barsch, the events coordinator. “It’s been a whole new experience working there, getting to know more faculty, students and staff,” she said. Now the newlywed, married March 5, plans to move to San Diego with her husband, Joe, in July and hopefully continue her work, but with a new type of audience. “I don’t have a dream job, but I want to do communications at the San Diego Zoo,” she said. “I think that would be a lot of fun.”
JA TONIO LEWIS
JA TONIO LEWIS
If there is one word to describe Ja Tonio Lewis, it’s inspired. “Ever since I was a kid, I would dream big,” he said. “If you dream big, even failure is going to produce something, something good no matter what.” Lewis bounced between foster homes as a child, settling finally with a family in Saline, from where he graduated high school in 1999. Lewis will never admit to really being grown-up. “I am immature as the days are long,” he said with a laugh, because Lewis always seems to have a smile on his face. “I walk around campus singing all the time. I don’t mind,” he said. “(People) don’t seem to mind… I have a song in my heart.” And Lewis wants to share some of that warmth with everyone around him, thanking God for giving him the strength to make it through the things he has. “When I did not have, I still found a way to give. When I could not give, I did something,” Lewis said. “That’s faith. Faith is going without knowing, doing without seeing. That’s my driving force. You can’t endure what I have endured, you can’t walk the life that I have walked and not have faith.” As Lewis completes the two years he has spent at WCC, graduating with an associate’s degree in liberal arts, he continues to look forward to new possibilities. He will begin taking courses in pre-law at Concordia University in the Fall and says his ultimate goal is politics, but not because he considers himself a politician. “Our current president is doing a really good job of motivating people,” Lewis said, “but I don’t think we have enough people running around inspiring people. We need problem solvers. We need people that are going to come, not just to bitch their opinion, but to come with a genuine, passion-filled solution. “The possibilities are endless. I see only the possibilities. Remember, I dream big.”