Peer pressure: the power of learning how to say “no”

Grace Faver | Washtenaw Voice

Kristy Kazzi

Staff Writer

For many students, college is not just an academic endeavor; it’s a transformative chapter marked by self-discovery, personal growth, and the forging of meaningful connections.

However, amid the pursuit of individuality, peer pressure can cast a shadow over this crucial period, influencing decisions and testing the resolve of those seeking their own path.

In the corridors of collegiate life, Teresa Herzog, adviser to the Collegiate Recovery Program (CRP), sheds light on how one club is actively combating the negative aspects of peer pressure.

The CRP serves as a beacon of support for students grappling with substance use recovery and seeking support in a sober environment, according to Herzog.

“Most importantly, I think building connections and normalizing how much our human needs involve connections with others,” said Herzog, highlighting the club’s focus on fostering a sense of belonging.

Herzog mentions it’s important to check in with ourselves and see how we are doing. This ensures we are getting the support we need, and if not, to reach out for help.

When discussing the hurdles of peer pressure, WCC students shared their experiences grappling with the adversity of it all; some admitting to giving in during times of weakness.

Others gave their personal tips learned through their own experiences.

“Being really adamant about making decisions based on my values has been a life changer in the peer pressure world,” said Mussa Geyre, a 19-year-old engineering student.

Geyre’s journey reflects the transformative power of aligning decisions with personal values, providing a compass for navigating the complexities of peer influence.

“Saying no when I really didn’t want to do something was hard at first, but as I practiced and followed my gut about my wants and needs, it got easier to say,” said Joshua Burns, a 20-year-old recent urban planning graduate.

“You have to learn to put yourself first in order to say yes to other things and other people,” said Burns.

Burns’ experience underscores the importance of prioritizing self-interest, a lesson learned through the trials of saying no and his path to success through empowerment to say yes to one’s authentic desires.